Minggu, 11 Oktober 2015

Menolak Lamaran

This conversation happened when I'm 16 Y.O, and my English is too bad, in serious condition. Hha.. Someone chat me on FB. Sebelum ini, udah ada percakapan basa-basi yaa, jadi ambil intinya aja. Here we go..

  • Him: u r single? u like pakistani people?
  • Me: yes, i am single but i waiting someone in here. Pakistani people? i don't know about them
  • Him: oh oke dear tell me. u r married?
  • Me: no, i 16th years old. i not thnk about boyfriend or marrid now..
  • Him: oh sorry.. but i propose u (((PROPOSE))) *menggema, hha* i want marry u, and i will give u all happiness
  • Me: oh i am sorry, coz i am very kid to think about that now.. i want to study (bijak oii)
  • Him: its ok.. after marry u can study. u want do everything which u like. i cant stop u
  • Me: our distance very longer you know..!! you are from pakistan n' i am from indonesia
  • Him: its ok. i love u. just see. U R MUSLIM?? I AM MUSLIM. U R HUMAN BEING. SO I Am HUMAN, THEN ITS OK. but have right to like me, because its ur right, if u dont like me, then i will accept ur decession. i love a lot, i give u too much love, realy.
  • Me: i think i can not with you. i am waiting someone in here
  • Him: y. ok if u have any boy f and lover. so tell me
  • Me: you can look for someone in pakistan if you want to marry now.
  • Him: i want marry which one i like. first time any girl i like too much. i cant live without u. and 2nd picture i post on my room wall. i see it every time, i realy love u. if u have skype then u can see ur picture on my wall
  • Me: hah? why you dont look for someone in Pakistan?
  • Him: oh no, u my first and my last love. ok. and couple made BY GOD, we can do anything i wana come to ur country
  • Me: Spechless.. i don't know i want too say what again
  • Him: can u Spencer? me (gw gangerti Spencer tuh apaan sih?)
  • Me: Sorry. i think i can not with you
  • Him: our kids are indonesian+pakistani. mix. y dear? i realy love u. i have a big for u. plz. if u like someone so tell me, i gone from ur life forever and alone live all life, if my love happy then i happy.
  • Me: i am very confused.. can you not say again about love?
  • Him: oh i understand. u like someone, am i right? and he breake or leave u? its trus? (Tebakannya sungguh mengagumkan, hha)
  • Me: Who's like me? (dengan bego'nya waktu itu jwb beginian, hhe)
  • Him: I dont kw. but i guess u. U kw last evening i bought a nice scraf for u. i think how i give u but... my heart like is i bought for u in black color (baik yah doi?) ^^
  • Me: emm...
  • Him: ok tell me ur lfe, about ur family. ur happiness ur sadness and all sadness give me. i bear all sad ness (how sweet he is??):''
  • Me: just so so, there isn't special in my life
  • Him: Have cell phone? give me ur mobile no. give me ur address. i send u ur gift. can i call ur now? use no. reply fast.
  • Me: (dan gue gk jawab-jawab. hha)
  • Him: I went this year to USA. i want we go both after marry. (Coba dulu di iya'in mungkin sekrang udah nyampek USA, wkwk)
  • Me: we're vey different, you think about marry but i dont think like that, we are very different
  • Him: we kw each other after marry. Before i went i wish my wife went with me. U R MUSLIM, ITS ENOUGH FOR ME. (Entah knp setelah bertahun2 gue tinggalkan conversation ini dan baru baca lagi, gue TERHARU sama kata-kata dia yg ini)
  • Me: you can say like that, but i am not. i am very kid if must there is beside you now.
  • Him: U can just nikkah with me, after 2 or 3 years i marry, nw u r happy. i am with u. u like that. i like. CAN U TALK ABOUT THIS TO UR PARENTS? GIVE ME UR FATHER NO. MY FATHER TALK TO UR FATHER. (dan ini jugaaa.. how gentle he is?) reply dear.
  • Me: Opo se? aq pusingg.. (haha... asli saking bingungnya, aku jwb pake indo aja, greget)
  • Him: if u not love with me, but i love u whole life its my promise with u. i live alone whole life. i can live with ur picture. yesterday my mother asked about ur picture that is post on my room wall. I said its my love. my mom like u too. if u dont marry with me. its ok. as u wish. i respect u. more and more. i respect ur feelings. i am going to USA hurry as possible.
  • Me: I am sorry if i can not give my love to you.. I am so sorry..
  • Him: I past my life with u pictures. its promise. be happy forever. bye. again i am sorry. bye.
  • Me: okey, i am sorry too.. if i make you sad, good bye.
  • Him: Its my nad luck. but i ll wait u for whole life. bye. (Then he send link some video from youtube, its kind of the mellow song)
  • Me: I just want to be ur frind, just friend.
  • Him: where is ur picture, u removed? but i need wife loveable wife, I DONT LIKE BOY AND GIRL FRIENDSHIP (suka aja sih sama prinsipnya, mungkin bener ya, nggak ada yg bisa cuma temanan biasa antara cwe dan cwo) FIRST, MARRY THEN LOVE MORE AND MORE ur wife. i wanna marry with u. but its ur right. if u like me.
  • Me: whatt?? i say one more again.. i not like you, i just want to be your friend, ok?
  • Him: it is basic of any girl, can i see u? how can i see u?
  • Me: no
  • Him: y. i wanna marry with u. u wear scarf? i want marry.. i love u aloooooooot whole life, sooooo much.
  • Me: TERSERAH. PUSING AKU. (hhakk) I am very confused, i not think about love now.
  • Him: i realy need. PLZ DONT LOVE, JUST LOVE AFTER MARRY.
  • Me: i not love you.
  • Him: I KW BUT AFTER MARRY I LOVE U ALOT, THEN U LOVE ME. U R MY FUTUR.
  • Me: UP TO YOU.. AND SORRY IF I CAN NOT LOVE YOU.
  • Him: I DONT MIND IF U DONT LOVE ME. BUT I KW AFTER MARRY WHEN I TAKE CARE OF U ALOOOOOOOOOOT, I COOK FOR U, THEN U SAY U LOVE ME. I WASH UR CLOTHES. I PRESS UR DRESSES. I PRAY FOR U. WE LOVE EACH OTHER. (Org yg siap nafkahin lahir batin gini gw tolak mentah-mentah, hha lol)
  • Me: u can not force someone to love you. u must understand with my said.
  • Him: I kw. it is ur right. i cant force u. LOVE IS UTOMATICALLY COME. I have love for u. i wait ur love. i like cook for my wife. I like it. we do every work together. i am saying, i cant force u dear. when we will talk some time, then hope u love me, i realy need u, sorry i am leave now, i am going for my prayer. I LOVE U ALOOOOT. BYE DEAR.
  • Me: (kicep)

Diluar dari kemampuan english gue yang ala-MBUH itu, juga tentang entah dia sedang mencoba menipu orang dari dunia maya atau bener-bener serius. Obrolan ini bikin gue mikir lagi, masih adakah lelaki diluar sana yang berpikir kayak dia? Yang tidak menyukai pertemanan antara pria dan wanita yang jelas akan lebih banyak mudharatnya, bener? Yang punya prinsip, Gapapa nikah dulu, cinta itu bisa datang seiring waktu. Yang SIAP nafkahin lahir batin. Yang kalo mau memulai keseriusan dengan wanita, maka segera menanyakan ke ayahnya. It's so cool!! I hope I can meet with the man who has the principle like him. Aamiin.

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